Sometimes we fail to search a fine line between solitude and loneliness. We tend to assume them equal and decide it to be undesirable and a notion of sadness. But actually solitude is linked to a human with strong personality. We may think of various negative effects of it. We think that solitude results in person becoming detached from social rules.Numerous introvert people have to endure taunts and had to receive the tag of being “greatly unsocial”. But actually it is not that worse as we assume it to be.
A solitude person is not a lonely person. He/she chose to remain alone maybe because they are tired of being bounded by unnecessary rules imposed by the society.They find happiness in being alone because they think nobody can understand their pain, dreams & reasoning. A person resorts to solitude when he/she becomes tired of the unending chaos of the society, when they fail to make peace with the corrupted regulations and customs. Being in solitude also bears numerous advantages. A solitude person gains perspective and insights of the world and themselves. They get enough time to clear their mind and intense drive for motivation. Though they may be assumed to being an unsocial but they possess great skill of problem solving. The reason is that they can analyse the crucial details and factors of the events. It is an opportunity to recharge the brain and get away with the clutter that has been accumulated for long. It helps to build strong imagination and as per research creativity emerges from a strong imagination power.
Solitude makes your life “entirely yours” you are the navigator of your own life. Your mistakes will enlighten you and your failures will make you stronger. So does your achievements. There is no greater happiness than enjoying your own fruit of success. It will make you more “self reliant”, more confident, will make you befriend yourself.
~ Written by- Sarah Ishadi Sparsha
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