To all the moms and dads, We know parenting is tough and you are giving your effort but whatever you do would not even count if you cannot make your child mentally healthy. Did you ever wonder how they feel seeing the people they love the most in this entire universe fight and hate each other? Do you even realise how much the child wants to escape from your daily chaos? How they feel when they see their friends having perfect families and they can not even have a proper dinner without you two arguing? Do you even realise how much it makes them insecure about their own partners and lose faith in marriage?
Every couple fights, whether it is big or small, please make sure to keep it between yourselves and do not show it in front of your kids or blame them for the reason you cannot leave. Your anger issues would get to your child and someday in future, they will suffer from it too. You give us everything we want but you keep us away from this one thing we need the most. A healthy family. Some children even grow up and abuse their partners thinking it is normal. Some tend to tolerate abuse from their partners. Some swirls into childhood traumas and loses all confidence.
It is important to have a healthy family, not only for the child but also for yourselves, that is why parenting is not as easy it seems. Be careful of what you do in front of your child because this can ruin their mental health for long term. Please have some boundaries.
And if you are someone who needs help regarding their mental health issues, feel free to contact us for FREE mental health support. Take care ❤️
~ Team Oroddho Health