The problem starts with "you've changed"! Then we start complaining that you are used to be like this or that, you used to care like that, talk like that and etc etc! What we don't realize is maybe something happened, which has changed that person! Maybe something, some experience or some situation!
Life is full of tests. Some tests, we pass with a good grade, in some tests we fail miserably! Whenever we face something very toxic! Either we pass through the situation and make ourselves stronger or we let ourselves fall! There's nothing wrong with this failure! Situation might change you, it's a normal procedure of life. But we have to make the decision. How we let the life change ourselves: for good or for bad! You can't let the toxicity make yourself a toxic one!
So the change is good! We have to change ourselves with every phases of life. That's how we grow! But decision is on our hands. We either grow as a beautiful human being or a person which might make you feel horrible in your last days of life.
And whenever we see a person has changed. Don't make her feel guilty. We're supposed to support him/her. Help him/her in this process. Accept his/her every version. We might get the best version of that person.
Remember, progress is impossible without change!
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