Do you know why people love the show "F.R.I.E.N.D.S" so much? Because it pictured the toughest times of our lives with humor and friendship. Our 20s are not meant to be easy; we become the person we are supposed to be while reforming to the catalytic action of the environment around us. Phoebe needed someone who felt like family. Messed up Chandler needed someone ultra-organized like Monica, Ross needed to work through his ego while Rachel needed to figure out who she wants to become. On the other hand, failures kept knocking Joey down, but he never gave up and tried to chase his dream.
The point is, they all needed different things to reach that maturity of character and they grew through the choice they and others made for themselves to become who they are. Growth is a tough part of life. I mean, if you look at biology, your cells are breaking down and reforming into new cells to grow you. Isn't that what life is all about? Breaking down something inside us, some knowledge, a perspective, a characteristic, an idea and make that into something newer, better. But just like your cells or your pet houseplants, each of them needs different conditions to grow and survive.
Plants can die if they get less of the sun or sometimes, too much sun. But Humans are the best creatures for a reason. Lay low and trust yourself when the sun in your life seems dimmed. Because when you will most definitely have your sun again, remember to rise up to that. So, say no more to "Oh my God! Everyone has accomplished so much. I didn't do anything." You will get there when your designated time arrives whilst you are constantly improvising yourself to the catalysts of your life. You will get to decide where you want to be and when that time comes, you will know that everything that happened, happened to drive you to that place.
~ Written by- Yeashfika Fariha
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